Hi all u ppl !! XDD (thats a picture of SNSD if u really dun noe.... :DDD)
If u have been visiting or following my blog for the past 5 months, i apologized for not updating it. =) I have an excuse for it :D My excuse is that my past 5 months have been packed with assignments and examinations, so i could not find the time to update it due to my busy schedule. As for my results for my exams and assignments, i dun have much confidence in it and i prayed and have cast these cares to Jesus to handle it for me... XDD okok... lets focus on the topic of this post...
In this blog post, i will sharing my thoughts about girls... girls are people who are opposite of guys (like DUH !!) however, although they are different from guys, there are also a number of similarities between both guys and girls.... :) one similarity is that both genders like to look good and presentable in public... seriously, who would want to look their best in public... however, the time spent to prepare is really different... O.o i came across this Facebook page stating the difference in time spent by a guy and girl preparing to go out... haha =D .... i am really surprised to realize that girls took so much time to prepare to go out.... anyway, lets move on...
well, to me, girls are... okay i guess.... i really not sure how to describe it... to be honest, ever since i was in kindergarten, i was "brainwashed" by my relatives that girls are really.... not good :-/ I cant remember what they said to me that time, but i recalled one thing though... if any of one among my cousins, they will be teased and disturbed like crazy... and because of that, i actually purposely minimized my interactions with girls... if u are laughing, this is seriously not funny lor... i was still kindergarten then so i dun noe the best way to solve it... :-D and so, this minimal interaction went on throughout the years, till i entered secondary school... at secondary school, my relatives have all matured and think differently... it suddenly became "cool" to have girlfriend (LOL !! what a change) but i din have a girlfriend then, so i kinda entered the "uncool" group (LOL)... nevertheless, it did not matter to me since i was not interested in being "cool" then... As a loner for the 1st 2 years of secondary life, i started to change little by little, and interact more with girls without much choice due to group work and stuff... and that was like so called my breakthrough... hahahhaahhaha......
in poly, i interact with girls a little more and become slightly more comfortable around them... but, i still hang out most of the time with guys since i feel most comfortable with them.... now, i can say i am little better at communicating with girls, but will get better in Jesus name (AMEN !!) i talk and interact with girls less not because i hate girls or anything ... truthfully, i dun hate girls, but it does not mean i like girls either ... how to explain this, i really dun know... like average average okay okay... anyway, its not just with girls, i think i might have the same issue with guys sometimes, especially guys from my caregroup... i always feel very lost for words when talking to them... :-/ i cant blame them since i feel there does not ever seem to be any common topic between them and me.... :-/ but it will get better (AMEN !) but strangely, this does not occurred with the people in the Media Resource Ministry (i think)... i seem to communicate fine with everyone there... heheheheheehe
now, i think many of my friends have always been curious as to what kind of girls i like... hehe... some may have got it wrong, others may have got it right... hehe... lets start with what my friends have assumed so far... ok... in poly, most of my guy friends think i am interested in girls are like short short cute cute kind of girls.... i really dun where they got this idea from... :-D anyway, this is wrong assumption on their part... hehe... this kind of girl are good and bad in their own way... these kind of girls are good because they like very guai and sometimes cute, then guys see already all want to protect like that (my thinking)... but bad thing is that, i feel they will be very dependent on guys, which i dun like cause like very weak (my thinking again)... sigh... now i really feel really bad after saying about this... ....
anyway, what i look for in a girl is really not just looks, but personality as well.... at first, my standard of girl is really high, as in, she must be good at everything, and i mean everything... but after going through poly, i come to realize there is no such girl in the world... girls are human, and human have weaknesses, so i have to re-think my standards during poly days... currently, i am not interested in getting into a relationship as i feel i am not ready for one... however, i can share here in my blog post i currently look for in a girl... firstly, she has to be shorter than me (as of cuz), and since i am still growing taller, my choices are increasing... hhahahahahah.... ok, secondly, she has to be musically talented... i am still considering what music talent to picked up now, but i will pick up at least one before finding a gf... i prefer someone who is musically talented because to me, they seem to be more... how to say this... like willing to make to effort to pick up some skills rather than study all day long... something like that... thirdly, she must be patient and not short tempered... seriously, i feel everyone in my family is short tempered easily... hence, i really dun wan to add another short tempered person into my life, cause i really dun noe how to comfort them when they are angry... however, i also dun wan the girl to be quiet quiet like that when they are angry cause this is freakingly scary... to me, it feels like she is gonna strike a knife behind me back when i turn away from her... Yup... something like that... lastly, she has to be cute or pretty or good looking (as of cuz)... if she has all three traits, then "HALLELUJAH !! PRAISE THE LORD !!!! " ok... these are my standards for a girl so far, but it may changed in the future...
however, i think the mutual feeling is the most important factor in a relationship... even if she fulfilled every standard i have stated, if the mutual feeling is not present, the relationship cannot go on at all..... these are my standards... but i think i will leave the choosing of my gf or life partner to Daddy God and Jesus... they know me better and know what i need... and now here, still single and unavailable, i know he has looked into my future and seen my life partner whom he has chosen.... so, lets not worry about stuff like this for now, and rush to find a gf or life partner... like pastor benjamin said: Never find someone who you can live with... Instead, find someone whom you cannot live without, because only then can you fall in love with the same person over and over again throughout the years of your marriage... ok... the last part is i added myself... but its true... ok... lets just leave everything to Daddy God and Jesus...... :DDD with this, i conclude today's topic.... hehe
since it is holidays, i should have more time to update bloggy... so stay in touch... and once more, it is not the fault of girls' that i ended up the way i am, it is my fault so dun worry bout it, girls..... :) :DDD
